I have wrecked my brain for my next Blog, but nothing seem to scream out at me. usually an event with faith or something i have seen or heard would give me inspiration and i run to the computer and write. So i went to my Husband , who has read every Blog i have done and has supported me so much and is my Best friend and soul mate and asked ' Tell me what you think i should write about, i need inspiration" .
So this Blog partly is my husband take on Faith what he worries about his daughter.
" I want people to know not to put too much pressure on there kids, and that they need to just try relax with them"
My husband a man of not many words, but it is true. Dad's take on finding time to relax with them , try not pressure them too much . Is that not what Dad's are for. I think i am always the one saying to Faith do this, have you done that blah , blah and Dad is the one she has her play fights with, jokes with and generally relaxes more with. I guess we have a balance then don't we. I guess i just stress more about her as i am always thinking, planning and organizing each day.
I love the way Reggie is able to just be relaxed around her, joke with her and well he has a way of working her up as well, but they have there own kind of relationship and i am thankful because she will grow up knowing Dad will always be there for me and . I am thankful my husband is at every psychologist appointment, We discuss everything and is involved. Although we play different roles in Faith life we both have an important place in her life and her Dad i feel is vital for her well been as a person and one day as a young woman as well.
I do however have to remind him now and then "Hey i have not given her anxiety tablet today, so tone it down lol "
I think faith just wants our support and help and even though we may give it in different way's we both contribute to helping her in any way we can.
I think it takes a rare man to stay and be a real dad especially under different circumstances when your child has special needs. So i take a bow to all Dad's who have stuck around, who have joined in, participated and been a contribution to there child's special needs. You are an example of a true man.
To Faith
my beautiful daughter, Dad loves you and thinks you are the best thing since Rugby. Even though he may tease, you, discipline you , or say very little you are the center of his universe and never doubt that he loves you more than anything in this world.
Mom
Quote:
"I do what I can to try and get by. I do the best I can under the circumstances and HOPE that I 'rock.' Although most of the time I feel I’m still a very long way from being able to claim any kind of trophy, I’ll never stop trying to be a better father, that much I’m certain of."—Ken Lilly, Blogzilly
